tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post8297954391699745888..comments2012-10-02T05:42:46.915+10:00Comments on The 41 Baby Project: "I believe there's a problem..."41BabyProjecthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18169209206119708279noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post-29482131001750810502010-02-06T22:32:54.931+11:002010-02-06T22:32:54.931+11:00I've given birth to a son who spent 3 months i...I've given birth to a son who spent 3 months in hospital due to prematurity and lack of growth, faced the possibility of heart surgery (wasn't needed) and watched him have an operation at 2 months (weighing all of 1.5kg) and I also have another son who was born with hypospadias. I didn't see him through his surgery as he became my son afterwards but he's 5 now and the surgery was successful. To the unknowing he appears to have been circumcised and he did need to have follow up visits to ensure that the repair to his urethra was successful and he pees straight but he seems to have no bad memory of his surgery and presumably all will work as it should in his future years. You will cope with it all because you can. I would never have thought I could have dealt with all I have but as long as I didn't think about what might have been coming it wasn't too hard. Just one day at a time and you & your baby will be more than fine :)<br /><br />Liz_is~~Kallie~~https://www.blogger.com/profile/05007090892144500352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post-34401675049262188152010-01-30T13:21:25.293+11:002010-01-30T13:21:25.293+11:00Agree with all the comments here. Nothing more I c...Agree with all the comments here. Nothing more I can add really, other than - thinking of you. Mother Guilt is a terrible thing, but really - it is not your fault. xoMegan Blandfordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12932508388869573748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post-43344342822362791022010-01-30T12:57:49.406+11:002010-01-30T12:57:49.406+11:00You have done nothing NOTHING, wrong. The love yo...You have done nothing NOTHING, wrong. The love you have for your baby boy is amazing, and visible through your words. Your baby is in good medical hands, and already feels the love you have for him.<br />You are in my thoughts.Naomihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11944798399375789864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post-10782169964932189402010-01-29T23:21:46.634+11:002010-01-29T23:21:46.634+11:00You know our story so I wont expand here but know ...You know our story so I wont expand here but know that you are in good hands and you are going to be an amazing mum.<br /><br />Your baby will be cared for by doctors and by nurses, by surgeons and by specialists who will do all the medical procedures he needs but you will love him, care for him and nurture him till adulthood and beyond. <br /><br />My little bubs went through 2 months of intensive care and surgery in just the first 2 months of his life. He had more surgery a year later and so much invasive testing and screening but he remembers nothing of it at all. All he knows is that he is a much loved and wanted child. Your baby will know that tooSharpest Pencilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08703706723793728866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post-22502425203657261832010-01-29T21:16:48.632+11:002010-01-29T21:16:48.632+11:00thinking of you. My "small" boy - born a...thinking of you. My "small" boy - born at 2.3kg only - is now a whopping 3 year old a head taller than most peers! It's hard not to worry though i know. Be kind to yourself xxSuzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04924026629076798262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post-59114302416395414452010-01-29T20:42:10.012+11:002010-01-29T20:42:10.012+11:00I shed a tear as I read these comments -
thank yo...I shed a tear as I read these comments - <br />thank you all for your prayers, reassurance and kindness :-) <br /><br />Means a lot to me - really.41BabyProjecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18169209206119708279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post-42489112713820902372010-01-29T20:24:06.671+11:002010-01-29T20:24:06.671+11:00Nothing! Nothing! Nothing! You did nothing wrong. ...Nothing! Nothing! Nothing! You did nothing wrong. Your little boy is already so loved and beloved by so many people. Some complete strangers. And he will receive great care and I hope and pray everything will be fine. xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post-50063899838412026752010-01-29T20:12:21.964+11:002010-01-29T20:12:21.964+11:00So sorry to hear this. I wish I could offer some w...So sorry to hear this. I wish I could offer some words to help. All I can say is once you hold your beautiful boy in your arms,his health troubles will be a million thoughts away. Do not blame yourself. xxxTarynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16780149973550636286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post-40758137826036407162010-01-29T19:22:10.723+11:002010-01-29T19:22:10.723+11:00Oh my! Thank u for sharing! This kind of news can&...Oh my! Thank u for sharing! This kind of news can't be easy to bear! My thoughts and prayers are with u and ur baby boy.. I don't know if this helps, a friend recently had a baby. They predicted all sort of problems but when she was born they weren't as bad as they had predicted! It will make all the difference when u hold ur little man in ur arms! Xxxxemlykdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16596626126684856321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461571812296823922.post-26235582108587587752010-01-29T19:20:53.230+11:002010-01-29T19:20:53.230+11:00Oh honey - you did NOTHING wrong, nothing. It just...Oh honey - you did NOTHING wrong, nothing. It just happens sometimes. And it isn't fair. And as sure as I am you'll get through it, now must be so hard for you, I would be terrfied. your little one will be born, will have surgery and will most very likely grow up to be well, happy and healthy. If there was any chance of not, they would be telling you.<br />You are in my thoughts and you do not deserve the guilt.aprilhttp://lifeslightlyused.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.com